So, you think she’s out of your league eh?
Well, hunny bunnies, you’re lucky this is a blog, because if I was sitting beside you, I’d smack you upside the head and call you an idiot. The clues are subtle, yes, but if you put that assumption on her based on your insecurities and preconceived notions, you’ve set yourself up for failure before you even open your mouth. Lately, I’ve been talking to a few women about this situation and our sentiments are all the same…
You’ve shot yourself in the foot without giving the girl a chance. This makes your insecurity your biggest fault, not the one you think that holding you back from getting the girl.
I tried to edit the scenarios down to a single blog post…but I can’t…the finished post (with edits) was three times longer than my usual posts. So, for the rest of this week, I’m going to give examples of those times when you think she’s too good to you, but really, you could’ve gotten it, had you gotten past gazing at your own navel.
I could get all after school special and talk about how everyone is unique in their own special way, but let’s face it: you may have pockmarked skin, a receding hairline, not be tall enough to ride the BAT at Wonderland. You can’t get the answers right to the $100 questions on Jeopardy and right now, there’s 95 cents in your bank account.
You know what’s the biggest turn off for women (besides body odour and genital warts?) Lack of confidence. So cut the sad sack bullshit routine and man up.
Wait a minute. This is not a guarantee that object of your lustful affection is going to suddenly change her mind about YOU. But do you REALLY want to be with a woman who wants you for what you could maybe possibly be? The man you (as her man) could be if you were taller, brainier, richer, skinnier, more fit…blah blah blah…
Okay, that’s bordering on afterschool special, but really? You’ve got nothing else to offer the world?
Everyone has their preferences. What you need to start preferring is women who prefer you.
Okay, let’s go…